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J U D G E S

CHAP. XIV.



     

The idea which this chapter gives us of Samson is not what one might

have expected concerning one who, by the special designation of heaven,

was a Nazarite to God and a deliverer of Israel; and yet really he was

both. Here is,

I. Samson’s courtship of a daughter of the Philistines, and his

marriage to her,

ver. 1-5, 7, 8.

II. His conquest of a lion, and the prize he found in the carcase of it,

ver. 5, 6, 8, 9.

III. Samson’s riddle proposed to his companions

(ver. 10-14)

and unriddled by the treachery of his wife,

ver. 15-18.

IV. The occasion this gave him to kill thirty of the Philistines

(ver. 19)

and to break off his new alliance,

ver. 20.











Samson Chooses a Philistine Wife; A Lion Slain by Samson. B. C. 1141.

     

1 And Samson went down to Timnath, and saw a woman in Timnath

of the daughters of the Philistines.

  2 And he came up, and told his father and his mother, and said,

I have seen a woman in Timnath of the daughters of the

Philistines: now therefore get her for me to wife.

  3 Then his father and his mother said unto him, Is there

never a woman among the daughters of thy brethren, or among all

my people, that thou goest to take a wife of the uncircumcised

Philistines? And Samson said unto his father, Get her for me; for

she pleaseth me well.

  4 But his father and his mother knew not that it was of the

LORD, that he sought an occasion against the Philistines: for at

that time the Philistines had dominion over Israel.

  5 Then went Samson down, and his father and his mother, to

Timnath, and came to the vineyards of Timnath: and, behold, a

young lion roared against him.

  6 And the Spirit of the LORD came mightily upon him, and he

rent him as he would have rent a kid, and he had nothing in his

hand: but he told not his father or his mother what he had done.

  7 And he went down, and talked with the woman; and she pleased

Samson well.

  8 And after a time he returned to take her, and he turned aside

to see the carcase of the lion: and, behold, there was a swarm

of bees and honey in the carcase of the lion.

  9 And he took thereof in his hands, and went on eating, and

came to his father and mother, and he gave them, and they did

eat: but he told not them that he had taken the honey out of the

carcase of the lion.

     

Here,

I. Samson, under the extraordinary guidance of Providence, seeks an

occasion of quarrelling with the Philistines, by joining in affinity

with them–a strange method, but the truth is Samson was himself a

riddle, a paradox of a man, did that which was really great and good,

by that which was seemingly weak and evil, because he was designed not

to be a pattern to us (who must walk by rule, not by example), but a

type of him who, though he knew no sin, was made sin for us, and

appeared in the likeness of sinful flesh, that he might

condemn and destroy sin in the flesh,
Rom. viii. 3.

     

1. As the negotiation of Samson’s marriage was a common case, we may

observe,

(1.) That is was weakly and foolishly done of him to set his affections

upon a daughter of the Philistines; the thing appeared very improper.

Shall one that is not only an Israelite, but a Nazarite, devoted to the

Lord, covet to become one with a worshipper of Dagon? Shall one marked

for a patriot of his country match among those that are its sworn

enemies? He saw this woman

(v. 1),

and she pleased him well,
v. 3.

It does not appear that he had any reason to think her wise or

virtuous, or in any way likely to be a help-meet for him; but he saw

something in her face that was very agreeable to his fancy, and

therefore nothing will serve but she must be his wife. He that in the

choice of a wife is guided only by his eye, and governed by his fancy,

must afterwards thank himself if he find a Philistine in his arms.

(2.) Yet it was wisely and well done not to proceed so much as to make

his addresses to her till he had first made his parents acquainted with

the matter. He told them, and desired them to get her for him to

wife,
v. 2.

Herein he is an example to all children. Conformably to the law of the

fifth commandment, children ought not to marry, nor to move towards

marrying, without the advice and consent of their parents; those that

do (as bishop Hall here expresses it) wilfully unchild themselves,

and exchange natural affections for violent. parents have a

property in their children as parts of themselves. In marriage this

property is transferred; for such is the law of the relation that a

man shall leave his father and his mother and cleave to his wife.

It is therefore not only unkind and ungrateful, but very unjust, to

alienate this property without their concurrence; whoso thus robbeth

his father or mother, stealing himself from them, who is nearer and

dearer to them than their goods, and yet saith, It is no

transgression, the same is the companion of a destroyer,
Prov. xxviii. 24.

(3.) His parents did well to dissuade him from yoking himself thus

unequally with unbelievers. Let those who profess religion, but are

courting an affinity with the profane and irreligious, matching into

families where they have reason to think the fear of God is not, nor

the worship of God, let them hear their reasoning, and apply it to

themselves: “Is there never a woman among the daughters of thy

brethren, or, if none of our tribe, never a one among all thy

people, never an Israelite, that pleases thee, or that thou canst

think worthy of thy affection, that thou shouldest marry a Philistine?”

In the old world the sons of God corrupted and ruined themselves, their

families, and that truly primitive church, by marrying with the

daughters of men,
Gen. vi. 2.

God had forbidden the people of Israel to marry with the devoted

nations, one of which the Philistines were,

Deut. vii. 3.

(4.) If there had not been a special reason for it, it certainly would

have been improper in him to insist upon his choice, and in them to

agree to it at last. Yet their tender compliance with his affections

may be observed as an example to parents not to be unreasonable in

crossing their children’s choices, nor to deny their consent,

especially to those that have seasonably and dutifully asked it,

without some very good cause. As children must obey their parents in

the Lord, so parents must not provoke their children to wrath,

lest they be discouraged. This Nazarite, in his subjection to his

parents, asking their consent, and not proceeding till he had it, was

not only an example to all children, but a type of the holy child

Jesus, who went down with his parents to Nazareth (thence called

a Nazarene) and was subject to them,

Luke ii. 51.

     

2. But this treaty of marriage is expressly said to be of the

Lord,
v. 4.

Not only that God afterwards overruled it to serve his designs against

the Philistines, but that he put it into Samson’s heart to make this

choice, that he might have occasion against the Philistine. It

was not a thing evil in itself for him to marry a Philistine. It was

forbidden because of the danger of receiving hurt by idolaters; where

there was not only no danger of that kind, but an opportunity hoped for

of doing that hurt to them which would be good service to Israel, the

law might well be dispense with. It was said

(ch. xiii. 25)

that the Spirit of the Lord began to move him at times, and we

have reason to think he himself perceived that Spirit to move him at

this time, when he made this choice, and that otherwise he would have

yielded to his parents’ dissuasives, nor would they have consented at

last if he had not satisfied them it was of the Lord. This would

bring him into acquaintance and converse with the Philistines, by which

he might have such opportunities of galling them as otherwise he could

not have. It should seem, the way in which the Philistines oppressed

Israel was, not by great armies, but by the clandestine incursions of

their giants and small parties of their plunderers. In the same way

therefore Samson must deal with them; let him but by this marriage get

among them, and he would be a thorn in their sides. Jesus

Christ, having to deliver us from this present evil world, and to cast

out the prince of it, did himself visit it, though full of pollution

and enmity, and, by assuming a body, did in some sense join in affinity

with it, that he might destroy our spiritual enemies, and his own arm

might work the salvation.

     

II. Samson, by a special providence, is animated and encouraged to

attack the Philistines. That being the service for which he was

designed, God, when he called him to it, prepared him for it by two

occurrences:–

     

1. By enabling him, in one journey to Timnath, to kill a lion,
v. 5, 6.

Many decline doing the service they might do because they know not

their own strength. God let Samson know what he could do in the

strength of the Spirit of the Lord, that he might never be

afraid to look the greatest difficulties in the face. David, who was to

complete the destruction of the Philistines, must try his hand first

upon a lion and a bear, that thence he might infer, as we may

suppose Samson did, that the uncircumcised Philistine should be as one

of them,

1 Sam. xvii. 36.

(1.) Samson’s encounter with the lion was hazardous. It was a young

lion, one of the fiercest sort, that set upon him, roaring for his

prey, and setting his eye particularly upon him; he roared in

meeting him, so the word is. He was all alone in the vineyards,

whither he had rambled from his father and mother (who kept the high

road), probably to eat grapes. Children consider not how they expose

themselves to the roaring lion that seeks to devour when, out of a

foolish fondness for liberty, they wander from under the eye and wing

of their prudent pious parents. Nor do young people consider what lions

lurk in the vineyards, the vineyards of red wines, as dangerous as

snakes under the green grass. Had Samson met with this lion in the way,

he might have had more reason to expect help both from God and man than

here in the solitary vineyards, out of his road. But there was a

special providence in it, and the more hazardous the encounter was,

(2.) The victory was so much the more illustrious. It was obtained

without any difficulty: he strangled the lion, and tore his throat as

easily as he would have strangled a kid, yet without any instrument,

not only no sword nor bow, but not so much as a staff or knife; he had

nothing in his hand. Christ engaged the roaring lion, and

conquered him in the beginning of his public work

(Matt. iv. 1,

&c.), and afterwards spoiled principalities and powers, triumphing over

them in himself, as some read it, not by any instrument. He was

exalted in his own strength. That which added much to the glory

of Samson’s triumph over the lion was that when he had done this great

exploit he did not boast of it, did not so much as tell his father

nor mother that which many a one would soon have published through

the whole country. Modesty and humility make up the brightest crown of

great performances.

     

2. By providing him, the next journey, with honey in the carcase of

this lion,

v. 8, 9.

When he came down the next time to solemnize his nuptials, and his

parents with him, he had the curiosity to turn aside into the vineyard

where he had killed the lion, perhaps that with the sight of the place

he might affect himself with the mercy of that great deliverance, and

might there solemnly give thanks to God for it. It is good thus to

remind ourselves of God’s former favours to us. There he found

the carcase of the lion; the birds or beasts of prey, it is likely, had

eaten the flesh, and in the skeleton a swarm of bees had knit, and made

a hive of it, and had not been idle, but had there laid up a good stock

of honey, which was one of the staple commodities of Canaan; such

plenty there was of it that the land is said to flow with milk and

honey. Samson, having a better title than any man to the hive,

seizes the honey with his hands. This supposes an encounter with the

bees; but he that dreaded not lion’s paws had no reason to fear

their stings. As by his victory over the lion he was emboldened

to encounter the Philistine-giants, if there should be occasion,

notwithstanding their strength and fierceness, so by dislodging the

bees he was taught not to fear the multitude of the Philistines; though

they compassed him about like bees, yet in the name of the Lord he

should destroy them,
Ps. cxviii. 12.

Of the honey he here found,

(1.) He ate himself, asking no questions for conscience’ sake; for the

dead bones of an unclean beast had not that ceremonial pollution in

them that the bones of a man had. John Baptist, that Nazarite of the

New Testament, lived upon wild honey.

(2.) He gave to his parents, and they did eat; he did not eat all

himself. Hast thou found honey? eat so much as is sufficient for

thee, and no more,

Prov. xxv. 16.

He let his parents share with him. Children should be grateful to

their parents with the fruits of their own industry, and so show

piety at home,
1 Tim. v. 4.

Let those that by the grace of God have found sweetness in religion

themselves communicate their experience to their friends and relations,

and invite them to come and share with them. He told not his parents

whence he had it, lest they should scruple eating it. Bishop Hall

observes here that those are less wise and more scrupulous than

Samson that decline the use of God’s gifts because they find them in

ill vessels. Honey is hone still, though in a dead lion. Our Lord

Jesus having conquered Satan, that roaring lion, believers find honey

in the carcase, abundant strength and satisfaction, enough for

themselves and for all their friends, from that victory.












Samson’s Riddle; Slaughter of the Philistines. B. C. 1141.

     

10 So his father went down unto the woman: and Samson made

there a feast; for so used the young men to do.

  11 And it came to pass, when they saw him, that they brought

thirty companions to be with him.

  12 And Samson said unto them, I will now put forth a riddle

unto you: if ye can certainly declare it me within the seven days

of the feast, and find it out, then I will give you thirty

sheets and thirty change of garments:

  13 But if ye cannot declare it me, then shall ye give me

thirty sheets and thirty change of garments. And they said unto

him, Put forth thy riddle, that we may hear it.

  14 And he said unto them, Out of the eater came forth meat, and

out of the strong came forth sweetness. And they could not in

three days expound the riddle.

  15 And it came to pass on the seventh day, that they said unto

Samson’s wife, Entice thy husband, that he may declare unto us

the riddle, lest we burn thee and thy father’s house with fire:

have ye called us to take that we have? is it not so?

  16 And Samson’s wife wept before him, and said, Thou dost but

hate me, and lovest me not: thou hast put forth a riddle unto the

children of my people, and hast not told it me. And he said

unto her, Behold, I have not told it my father nor my mother,

and shall I tell it thee?

  17 And she wept before him the seven days, while their feast

lasted: and it came to pass on the seventh day, that he told her,

because she lay sore upon him: and she told the riddle to the

children of her people.

  18 And the men of the city said unto him on the seventh day

before the sun went down, What is sweeter than honey? and what

is stronger than a lion? And he said unto them, If ye had not

plowed with my heifer, ye had not found out my riddle.

  19 And the Spirit of the LORD came upon him, and he went down

to Ashkelon, and slew thirty men of them, and took their spoil,

and gave change of garments unto them which expounded the riddle.

And his anger was kindled, and he went up to his father’s house.

  20 But Samson’s wife was given to his companion, whom he had

used as his friend.

     

We have here an account of Samson’s wedding feast and the occasion it

gave him to fall foul upon the Philistines.

     

I. Samson conformed to the custom of the country in making a festival

of his nuptial solemnities, which continued seven days,

v. 10.

Though he was a Nazarite, he did not affect, in a thing of this nature,

to be singular, but did as the young men used to do upon such

occasions. It is no part of religion to go contrary to the innocent

usages of the places where we live: nay, it is a reproach to religion

when those who profess it give just occasion to others to call them

covetous, sneaking, and morose. A good man should strive to make

himself, in the best sense, a good companion.

     

II. His wife’s relations paid him the accustomed respect of the place

upon that occasion, and brought him thirty young men to keep him

company during the solemnity, and to attend him as his grooms-men

(v. 11):

When they saw him, what a comely man he was, and what an

ingenuous graceful look he had, they brought him these to do him

honour, and to improve by his conversation while he staid among them.

Or, rather, when they saw him, what a strong stout man he was, they

brought these, seemingly to be his companions, but really to be a guard

upon him, or spies to observe him. Jealous enough they were of him, but

would have been more so had they known of his victory over the lion,

which therefore he had industriously concealed. The favours of

Philistines have often some mischief or other designed in them.

     

III. Samson, to entertain the company, propounds a riddle to them, and

lays a wager with them that they cannot find it out in seven days,

v. 12-14.

The usage, it seems, was very ancient upon such occasions, when friends

were together, to be innocently merry, not to spend all the time in

dull eating and drinking, as bishop Patrick expresses it, or in other

gratifications of sense, as music, dancing, or shows, but to propose

questions, by which their learning and ingenuity might be tried and

improved. This becomes men, wise men, that value themselves by their

reason; but very unlike to it are the infamous and worse than brutish

entertainments of this degenerate age, which send nothing round but the

glass and the health, till reason is drowned, and wisdom sunk. Now,

1. Samson’s riddle was his own invention, for it was his own

achievement that gave occasion for it: Out of the eater came forth

meat, and out of the strong came forth sweetness. Read my riddle,

what is this? Beasts of prey do not yield meat for man, yet food

came from the devourer; and those creatures that are strong when

they are alive commonly smell strong and are every way offensive when

they are dead, as horses, and yet out of the strong, or out of

the bitter, so the Syriac and Arabic read it, came

sweetness. If they had but so much sense as to consider what eater

is most strong, and what meat is most sweet, they would have found out

the riddle, and neither lions nor honey were such strangers to their

country that the thoughts of them needed to be out of the way; and the

solving of the riddle would have given him occasion to tell them the

entertaining story on which it was founded. This riddle is applicable

to many of the methods of divine providence and grace. When God, by an

over-ruling providence, brings good out of evil to his church and

people,–when that which threatened their ruin turns to their

advantage,–when their enemies are made serviceable to them, and the

wrath of men turns to God’s praise,–then comes meat out of the

eater and sweetness out of the strong. See

Phil. i. 12.

2. His water was more considerable to him than to them, because he was

one against thirty partners. It was not a wager laid upon God’s

providence, or upon the chance of a die or a card, but upon their

ingenuity, and amounted to no more than an honorary recompence of wit

and a disgrace upon stupidity.

     

IV. His companions, when they could not expound the riddle themselves,

obliged his wife to get from him the exposition of it,

v. 15.

Whether they were really of a dull capacity, or whether under a

particular infatuation at this time, it was strange that none of the

thirty could in all this time stumble upon so plain a thing as that,

What is sweeter than honey and what stronger than a lion?

It should seem that in wit, as well as manners, they were

barbarous–barbarous indeed to threaten the bride that, if she would

not use means with the bridegroom to let them into the meaning of it,

they would burn her and her father’s house with fire. Could any

thing be more brutish? It was base enough to turn a jest into earnest,

and those were unworthy of conversation that would grow so outrageous

rather than confess their ignorance and lose so small a wager; nor

would it save their credit at all to tell the riddle when they were

told it. It was yet more villainous to engage Samson’s wife to be a

traitor to her own husband, and to pretend a greater interest in her

than he had. Now that she was married she must forget her own

people. Yet most inhuman of all was it to threaten, if she could

not prevail, to burn her and all her relations with fire, and all for

fear of losing each of them the value of a shirt and a coat: Have

you called us to take what we have? Those must never lay wagers

that cannot lose more tamely and easily than thus.

     

V. His wife, by unreasonable importunity, obtains from him a key to his

riddle. It was on the seventh day, that is, the seventh day of

the week (as Dr. Lightfoot conjectures), but the fourth day of the

feast, that they solicited her to entice her husband

(v. 15),

and she did it,

1. With great art and management

(v. 16),

resolving not to believe he loved her, unless he would gratify her in

this thing. She knew he could not bear to have his love questioned, and

therefore, if any thing would work upon him, that would: “Thou dost

but hate me, and lovest me not, if thou deniest me;” whereas he had

much more reason to say, “Thou dost but hate me, and lovest

me not, if thou insistest on it.” And, that she might not make this

the test of his affection, he assures her he had not told his own

parents, notwithstanding the confidence he reposed in them. If this

prevail not, she will try the powerful eloquence of tears: she wept

before him the rest of the days of the feast, choosing

rather to mar the mirth, as the bride’s tears must needs do, than not

gain her point, and oblige her countrymen,

v. 17.

2. With great success. At last, being quite wearied with her

importunity, he told her what was the meaning of his riddle, and though

we may suppose she promised secresy, and that if he would but let her

know she would tell nobody, she immediately told it to the children

of her people; nor could he expect better from a Philistine,

especially when the interests of her country were ever so little

concerned. See

Mic. vii. 5, 6.

The riddle is at length unriddled

(v. 18):

What is sweeter than honey, or a better meat?

Prov. xxiv. 13.

What is stronger than a lion, or a greater devourer? Samson

generously owns they had won the wager, though he had good reason to

dispute it, because they had not declared the riddle, as the bargain

was

(v. 12),

but it had been declared to them. But he only thought fit to tell them

of it: If you had not ploughed with my heifer, made use of your

interest with my wife, you would not have found out my riddle.

Satan, in his temptations, could not do us the mischief he does if he

did not plough with the heifer of our own corrupt nature.

     

VI. Samson pays his wager to these Philistines with the spoils of

others of their countrymen,

v. 19.

He took this occasion to quarrel with the Philistines, went down to

Ashkelon, one of their cities, where probably he knew there was some

great festival observed at this time, to which many flocked, out of

whom he picked out thirty, slew them, and took their clothes, and gave

them to those that had expounded the riddle; so that, in balancing the

account, it appeared that the Philistines were the losers, for one of

the lives they lost was worth all the suits of clothes they won: the

body is more than raiment. The Spirit of the Lord came upon

him, both to authorize and to enable him to do this.

     

VII. This proves a good occasion of weaning Samson from his new

relations. He found how his companions had abused him and how his wife

had betrayed him, and therefore his anger was kindled,
v. 19.

Better be angry with Philistines than in love with them, because, when

we join ourselves to them, we are most in danger of being ensnared by

them. And, meeting with this ill usage among them, he went up to his

father’s house. It were well for us if the unkindnesses we meet

with from the world, and our disappointments in it, had but this good

effect upon us, to oblige us by faith and prayer to return to our

heavenly Father’s house and rest there. The inconveniences that occur

in our way should make us love home and long to be there. No sooner had

he gone than his wife was disposed of to another,

v. 20.

Instead of begging his pardon for the wrong she had done him, when he

justly signified his resentment of it only by withdrawing in

displeasure for a time, she immediately marries him that was the chief

of the guests, the friend of the bridegroom, whom perhaps she loved too

well, and was too willing to oblige, when she got her husband to tell

her the riddle. See how little confidence is to be put in man, when

those may prove our enemies whom we have used as our friends.


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