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S E C O N D   S A M U E L

CHAP. XII.



     

The foregoing chapter gave us the account of David’s sin; this gives us

the account of his repentance. Though he fell, he was not utterly cast

down, but, by the grace of God, recovered himself, and found mercy with

God. Here is,

I. His conviction, by a message Nathan brought him from God, which was

a parable that obliged him to condemn himself

(ver. 1-6),

and the application of the parable, in which Nathan charged him with

the sin

(ver. 7-9)

and pronounced sentence upon him,,

ver. 10-12.

II. His repentance and remission, with a proviso,

ver. 13, 14.

III. The sickness and death of the child, and his behaviour while it

was sick and when it was dead

(ver. 15-23),

in both which David gave evidence of his repentance.

IV. The birth of Solomon, and God’s gracious message concerning him, in

which God gave an evidence of his reconciliation to David,

ver. 24, 25.

V. The taking of Rabbah

(ver. 26-31),

which is mentioned as a further instance that God did not deal with

David according to his sins.
















Nathan’s Parable; David’s Repentance. B. C. 1036.

     

1 And the LORD sent Nathan unto David. And he came unto him,

and said unto him, There were two men in one city; the one rich,

and the other poor.

  2 The rich man had exceeding many flocks and herds:

  3 But the poor man had nothing, save one little ewe lamb,

which he had bought and nourished up: and it grew up together

with him, and with his children; it did eat of his own meat, and

drank of his own cup, and lay in his bosom, and was unto him as a

daughter.

  4 And there came a traveller unto the rich man, and he spared

to take of his own flock and of his own herd, to dress for the

wayfaring man that was come unto him; but took the poor man’s

lamb, and dressed it for the man that was come to him.

  5 And David’s anger was greatly kindled against the man; and he

said to Nathan, As the LORD liveth, the man that hath done this

thing shall surely die:

  6 And he shall restore the lamb fourfold, because he did this

thing, and because he had no pity.

  7 And Nathan said to David, Thou art the man. Thus saith the

LORD God of Israel, I anointed thee king over Israel, and I

delivered thee out of the hand of Saul;

  8 And I gave thee thy master’s house, and thy master’s wives

into thy bosom, and gave thee the house of Israel and of Judah;

and if that had been too little, I would moreover have given

unto thee such and such things.

  9 Wherefore hast thou despised the commandment of the LORD, to

do evil in his sight? thou hast killed Uriah the Hittite with the

sword, and hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and hast slain

him with the sword of the children of Ammon.

  10 Now therefore the sword shall never depart from thine house;

because thou hast despised me, and hast taken the wife of Uriah

the Hittite to be thy wife.

  11 Thus saith the LORD, Behold, I will raise up evil against

thee out of thine own house, and I will take thy wives before

thine eyes, and give them unto thy neighbour, and he shall lie

with thy wives in the sight of this sun.

  12 For thou didst it secretly: but I will do this thing

before all Israel, and before the sun.

  13 And David said unto Nathan, I have sinned against the LORD.

And Nathan said unto David, The LORD also hath put away thy sin;

thou shalt not die.

  14 Howbeit, because by this deed thou hast given great occasion

to the enemies of the LORD to blaspheme, the child also that is

born unto thee shall surely die.

     

It seems to have been a great while after David had been guilty of

adultery with Bath-sheba before he was brought to repentance for it.

For, when Nathan was sent to him, the child was born

(v. 14),

so that it was about nine months that David lay under the guilt of that

sin, and, for aught that appears, unrepented of. What shall we think of

David’s state all this while? Can we imagine that his heart never smote

him for it, or that he never lamented it in secret before God? I would

willingly hope that he did, and that Nathan was sent to him,

immediately upon the birth of the child, when the thing by that means

came to be publicly known and talked of, to draw from him an open

confession of the sin, to the glory of God, the admonition of others,

and that he might receive, by Nathan, absolution with certain

limitations. But, during these nine months, we may well suppose his

comforts and the exercises of his graces suspended, and his communion

with God interrupted; during all that time, it is certain, he penned no

psalms, his harp was out of tune, and his soul like a tree in winter,

that has life in the root only. Therefore, after Nathan had been with

him, he prays, Restore unto me the joy of thy salvation, and open

thou my lips,
Ps. li. 12, 15.

Let us observe,

     

I. The messenger God sent to him. We were told by the last words of the

foregoing chapter that the thing David had done displeased the Lord,

upon which, one would think, it should have followed that the Lord sent

enemies to invade him, terrors to take hold on him, and the messengers

of death to arrest him. No, he sent a prophet to him–Nathan, his

faithful friend and confidant, to instruct and counsel him,

v. 1.

David did not send for Nathan (though he had never had so much occasion

as he had now for his confessor), but God sent Nathan to David. Note,

Though God may suffer his people to fall into sin, he will not suffer

them to lie still in it. He went on frowardly in the way of his

heart, and if left to himself, would have wandered endlessly, but

(saith God) I have seen his ways, and will heal him,
Isa. lvii. 17, 18.

He sends after us before we seek after him, else we should certainly be

lost. Nathan was the prophet by whom God had sent him notice of his

kind intentions towards him

(ch. vii. 4),

and now, by the same hand, he sends him this message of wrath. God’s

word in the mouth of his ministers must be received, whether it speak

terror or comfort. Nathan was obedient to the heavenly vision, and went

on God’s errand to David. He did not say, “David has sinned, I will

not come near him.” No; count him not an enemy, but admonish him as

a brother,
2 Thess. iii. 15.

He did not say, “David is a king, I dare not reprove him.” No; if God

sends him, he sets his face like a flint,
Isa. l. 7.

     

II. The message Nathan delivered to him, in order to his

conviction.

     

1. He fetched a compass with a parable, which seemed to David as a

complaint made to him by Nathan against one of his subjects that had

wronged his poor neighbour, in order to his redressing the injury and

punishing the injurious. Nathan, it is likely, used to come to him upon

such errands, which made this the less suspected. It becomes those who

have interest in princes, and have free access to them, to intercede

for those that are wronged, that they may have justice done them.

(1.) Nathan represented to David a grievous injury which a rich man had

done to an honest neighbour that was not able to contend with him:

The rich man had many flocks and herds

(v. 2);

the poor man had one lamb only; so unequally is the world divided; and

yet infinite wisdom, righteousness, and goodness, make the

distribution, that the rich may learn charity and the poor contentment.

This poor man had but one lamb, a ewe-lamb, a little ewe-lamb, having

not wherewithal to buy or keep more. But it was a cade–lamb (as

we call it); it grew up with his children,
v. 3.

He was fond of it, and it was familiar with him at all times. The rich

man, having occasion for a lamb to entertain a friend with, took the

poor man’s lamb from him by violence and made use of that

(v. 4),

either out of covetousness, because he grudged to make use of his own,

or rather out of luxury, because he fancied the lamb that was thus

tenderly kept, and ate and drank like a child, must needs be more

delicate food than any of his own and have a better relish.

(2.) In this he showed him the evil of the sin he had been guilty of in

defiling Bath-sheba. He had many wives and concubines, whom he kept at

a distance, as rich men keep their flocks in their fields. Had he had

but one, and had she been dear to him, as the ewe-lamb was to its

owner, had she been dear to him as the loving hind and the pleasant

roe, her breasts would have satisfied him at all times, and he

would have looked no further,

Prov. v. 19.

Marriage is a remedy against fornication, but marrying many is not;

for, when once the law of unity is transgressed, the indulged lust will

hardly stint itself. Uriah, like the poor man, had only one wife, who

was to him as his own soul, and always lay in his bosom, for he had no

other, he desired no other, to lie there. The traveller or wayfaring

man was, as bishop Patrick explains it from the Jewish writers, the

evil imagination, disposition, or desire, which came into David’s

heart, which he might have satisfied with some of his own, yet nothing

would serve but Uriah’s darling. They observe that this evil

disposition is called a traveller, for in the beginning it is only so,

but, in time, it becomes a guest, and, in conclusion, is master of the

house. For he that is called a traveller in the beginning of the verse

is called a man (ish–a husband) in the close of it. Yet some

observe that in David’s breast lust was but as a wayfaring man that

tarries only for a night; it did not constantly dwell and rule there.

(3.) By this parable he drew from David a sentence against himself. For

David supposing it to be a case in fact, and not doubting the truth of

it when he had it from Nathan himself, gave judgment immediately

against the offender, and confirmed it with an oath,

v. 5, 6.

[1.] That, for his injustice in taking away the lamb, he should restore

four-fold, according to the law

(Exod. xxii. 1),

four sheep for a sheep.

[2.] That for his tyranny and cruelty, and the pleasure he took in

abusing a poor man, he should be put to death. If a poor man steal from

a rich man, to satisfy his soul when he is hungry, he shall make

restitution, though it cost him all the substance of his house,
Prov. vi. 30, 31

(and Solomon there compares the sin of adultery with that,

v. 32);

but if a rich man steal for stealing sake, not for want but wantonness,

merely that he may be imperious and vexatious, he deserves to die for

it, for to him the making of restitution is no punishment, or next to

none. If the sentence be thought too severe, it must be imputed to the

present roughness of David’s temper, being under guilt, and not having

himself as yet received mercy.

     

2. He closed in with him, at length, in the application of the parable.

In beginning with a parable he showed his prudence, and great need

there is of prudence in giving reproofs. It is well managed if, as

here, the offender can be brought ere he is aware, to convict and

condemn himself. But here, in his application, he shows his

faithfulness, and deals as plainly and roundly with king David himself

as if he had been a common person. In plain terms, “Thou art the

man who hast done this wrong, and a much greater, to thy neighbour;

and therefore, by thy own sentence, thou deservest to die, and shalt be

judged out of thy own mouth. Did he deserve to die who took his

neighbour’s lamb? and dost not thou who hast taken thy neighbour’s

wife? Though he took the lamb, he did not cause the owner thereof to

lose his life, as thou hast done, and therefore much more art thou

worthy to die.” Now he speaks immediately from God, and in his name. He

begins with, Thus saith the Lord God of Israel, a name sacred

and venerable to David, and which commanded his attention. Nathan now

speaks, not as a petitioner for a poor man, but as an ambassador from

the great God, with whom is no respect of persons.

     

(1.) God, by Nathan, reminds David of the great things he had done and

designed for him, anointing him to be king, and preserving him to the

kingdom

(v. 7),

giving him power over the house and household of his predecessor, and

of others that had been his masters, Nabal for one. He had given him

the house of Israel and Judah. The wealth of the kingdom was at his

service and every body was willing to oblige him. Nay, he was ready to

bestow any thing upon him to make him easy: I would have given thee

such and such things,
v. 8.

See how liberal God is in his gifts; we are not straitened in him.

Where he has given much, yet he gives more. And God’s bounty to us is

a great aggravation of our discontent and desire of forbidden fruit. It

is ungrateful to covet what God has prohibited, while we have liberty

to pray for what God has promised, and that is enough.

     

(2.) He charges him with a high contempt of the divine authority, in

the sins he had been guilty of: Wherefore hast thou (presuming

upon thy royal dignity and power) despised the commandment of the

Lord?
v. 9.

This is the spring and this is the malignity of sin, that it is making

light of the divine law and the law-maker; as if the obligation of it

were weak, the precepts of it trifling, and the threats not at all

formidable. Though no man ever wrote more honourably of the law of God

than David did, yet, in this instance, he is justly charged with a

contempt of it. His adultery with Bath-sheba, which began the mischief,

is not mentioned, perhaps because he was already convinced of that,

but,

[1.] The murder of Uriah is twice mentioned: “Thou hast killed Uriah

with the sword, though not with thy sword, yet, which is equally

heinous, with thy pen, by ordering him to be set in the forefront of

the battle.” Those that contrive wickedness and command it are as truly

guilty of it as those that execute it. It is repeated with an

aggravation: Thou hast slain him with the sword of the children of

Ammon, those uncircumcised enemies of God and Israel.

[2.] The marrying of Bath-sheba is likewise twice mentioned, because he

thought there was no harm in that

(v. 9):

Thou hast taken his wife to be thy wife, and again,

v. 10.

To marry her whom he had before defiled, and whose husband he had

slain, was an affront upon the ordinance of marriage, making that not

only to palliate, but in a manner to consecrate, such villanies. In all

this he despised the word of the Lord (so it is in the Hebrew),

not only his commandment in general which forbade such things, but the

particular word of promise which God had, by Nathan, sent to him some

time before, that he would build him a house. If he had had a due value

and veneration for this sacred promise, he would not thus have polluted

his house with lust and blood.

     

(3.) He threatens an entail of judgements upon his family for this sin

(v. 10):

The sword shall never depart from thy house, not in thy time

nor afterwards, but, for the most part, thou and thy posterity shall be

engaged in war.” Or it points at the slaughters that should be among

his children, Amnon, Absalom, and Adonijah, all falling by the sword.

God had promised that his mercy should not depart from him and his

house

(ch. vii. 15),

yet here threatens that the sword should not depart. Can the mercy and

the sword consist with each other? Yes, those may lie under great and

long afflictions who yet shall not be excluded from the grace of the

covenant. The reason given is, Because thou hast despised me.

Note, Those who despise the word and law of God despise God himself and

shall be lightly esteemed. It is particularly threatened,

[1.] That his children should be his grief: I will raise up evil

against thee out of thy own house. Sin brings trouble into a

family, and one sin is often made the punishment of another.

[2.] That his wives should be his shame, that by an unparalleled piece

of villany they should be publicly debauched before all Israel,

v. 11, 12.

It is not said that this should be done by his own son, lest the

accomplishment should have been hindered by the prediction being too

plain; but it was done by Absalom, at the counsel of Ahithophel,

ch. xvi. 21, 22.

He that defiled his neighbour’s wife should have his own

defiled, for thus that sin used to be punished, as appears by Job’s

imprecation,

Job xxxi. 10,

Then let my wife grind unto another, and that threatening,

Hos. iv. 14.

The sin was secret, and industriously concealed, but the punishment

should be open, and industriously proclaimed, to the shame of David,

whose sin in the matter of Uriah, though committed many years before,

would then be called to mind and commonly talked of upon that occasion.

As face answers to face in a glass, so does the punishment often answer

to the sin; here is blood for blood and uncleanness for

uncleanness. And thus God would show how much he hates sin, even in

his own people, and that, wherever he find it, he will not let it go

unpunished.

     

3. David’s penitent confession of his sin hereupon. He says not a word

to excuse himself or extenuate his sin, but freely owns it: I have

sinned against the Lord,
v. 13.

It is probable that he said more to this purport; but this is enough to

show that he was truly humbled by what Nathan said, and submitted to

the conviction. He owns his guilt–I have sinned, and aggravates

it–It was against the Lord: on this string he harps in the

psalm he penned on this occasion.

Ps. li. 1,

Against thee, thee only, have I sinned.

     

4. His pardon declared, upon this penitent confession, but with a

proviso. When David said I have sinned, and Nathan perceived

that he was a true penitent,

     

(1.) He did, in God’s name, assure him that his sin was forgiven:

The Lord also has put away thy sin out of the sight of his

avenging eye; thou shalt not die,” that is, “not die eternally,

nor be for ever put away from God, as thou wouldest have been if he had

not put away the sin.” The obligation to punishment is hereby cancelled

and vacated. He shall not come into condemnation: that is the

nature of forgiveness. “Thy iniquity shall not be thy everlasting ruin.

The sword shall not depart from thy house, but,

[1.] It shall not cut thee off, thou shalt come to thy grave in peace.”

David deserved to die as an adulterer and murderer, but God would not

cut him off as he might justly have done.

[2.] “Though thou shalt all thy days be chastened of the Lord,

yet thou shalt not be condemned with the world.” See how ready

God is to forgive sin. To this instance, perhaps, David refers,

Ps. xxxii. 5,

I said, I will confess, and thou forgavest. Let not great

sinners despair of finding mercy with God if they truly repent; for who

is a God like unto him, pardoning iniquity?

     

(2.) Yet he pronounces a sentence of death upon the child,

v. 14.

Behold the sovereignty of God! The guilty parent lives, and the

guiltless infant dies; but all souls are his, and he may, in what way

he pleases, glorify himself in his creatures.

[1.] David had, by his sin, wronged God in his honour; he had given

occasion to the enemies of the Lord to blaspheme. The wicked people

of that generation, the infidels, idolaters, and profane, would triumph

in David’s fall, and speak ill of God and of his law, when they saw one

guilty of such foul enormities that professed such an honour both for

him and it. “These are your professors! This is he that prays and sings

psalms, and is so very devout! What good can there be in such

exercises, if they will not restrain men from adultery and murder?”

They would say, “Was not Saul rejected for a less matter? why then must

David live and reign still?” not considering that God sees not as

man sees, but searches the heart. To this day there are those who

reproach God, and are hardened in sin, through the example of David.

Now, though it is true that none have any just reason to speak ill of

God, or of his word and ways, for David’s sake, and it is their sin

that do so, yet he shall be reckoned with that laid the stumbling-block

in their way, and gave, though not cause, yet colour, for the reproach.

Note, There is this great evil in the scandalous sins of those that

profess religion, and relation to God, that they furnish the enemies of

God and religion with matter for reproach and blasphemy,

Rom. ii. 24.

[2.] God will therefore vindicate his honour by showing his displeasure

against David for this sin, and letting the world see that though he

loves David he hates his sin; and he chooses to do it by the death

of the child. The landlord may distrain on any part of the premises

where he pleases. Perhaps the diseases and deaths of infants were not

so common in those days as they are now, which might make this, as an

unusual thing, the more evident token of God’s displeasure; according

to the word he had often said, that he would visit the sins of the

fathers upon the children.












David’s Humiliation; Birth of Solomon. B. C. 1036.

     

15 And Nathan departed unto his house. And the LORD struck the

child that Uriah’s wife bare unto David, and it was very sick.

  16 David therefore besought God for the child; and David

fasted, and went in, and lay all night upon the earth.

  17 And the elders of his house arose, and went to him, to

raise him up from the earth: but he would not, neither did he eat

bread with them.

  18 And it came to pass on the seventh day, that the child died.

And the servants of David feared to tell him that the child was

dead: for they said, Behold, while the child was yet alive, we

spake unto him, and he would not hearken unto our voice: how will

he then vex himself, if we tell him that the child is dead?

  19 But when David saw that his servants whispered, David

perceived that the child was dead: therefore David said unto his

servants, Is the child dead? And they said, He is dead.

  20 Then David arose from the earth, and washed, and anointed

himself, and changed his apparel, and came into the house of

the LORD, and worshipped: then he came to his own house; and when

he required, they set bread before him, and he did eat.

  21 Then said his servants unto him, What thing is this that

thou hast done? thou didst fast and weep for the child, while it

was alive; but when the child was dead, thou didst rise and eat

bread.

  22 And he said, While the child was yet alive, I fasted and

wept: for I said, Who can tell whether GOD will be gracious to

me, that the child may live?

  23 But now he is dead, wherefore should I fast? can I bring him

back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me.

  24 And David comforted Bathsheba his wife, and went in unto

her, and lay with her: and she bare a son, and he called his name

Solomon: and the LORD loved him.

  25 And he sent by the hand of Nathan the prophet; and he called

his name Jedidiah, because of the LORD.

     

Nathan, having delivered his message, staid not at court, but went

home, probably to pray for David, to whom he had been preaching. God,

in making use of him as an instrument to bring David to repentance, and

as the herald both of mercy and judgment, put an honour upon the

ministry, and magnified his word above all his name. David named

one of his sons by Bath-sheba Nathan, in honour of this prophet

(1 Chron. iii. 5),

and it was that son of whom Christ, the great prophet, lineally

descended,

Lu. iii. 31.

When Nathan retired, David, it is probable, retired likewise, and

penned the

51st Psalm,

in which (though he had been assured that his sin was pardoned) he

prays earnestly for pardon, and greatly laments his sin; for then will

true penitents be ashamed of what they have done when God is

pacified towards them,
Ezek. xvi. 63.

     

Here is,

I. The child’s illness: The Lord struck it, and it was very

sick, perhaps with convulsions, or some other dreadful distemper,

v. 15.

The diseases and death of infants that have not sinned after the

similitude of Adam’s transgression, especially as they are

sometimes sadly circumstanced, are sensible proofs of the original sin

in which they are conceived.

     

II. David’s humiliation under this token of God’s displeasure, and the

intercession he made with God for the life of the child

(v. 16, 17):

He fasted, and lay all night upon the earth, and would not

suffer any of his attendants either to feed him or help him up. This

was an evidence of the truth of his repentance. For,

1. Hereby it appeared that he was willing to bear the shame of his sin,

to have it ever before him, and to be continually upbraided with it;

for this child would be a continual memorandum of it, both to himself

and others, if he lived: and therefore he was so far from desiring its

death, as most in such circumstances do, that he prayed earnestly for

its life. True penitents patiently bear the reproach of their

youth, and of their youthful lusts,

Jer. xxxi. 19.

2. A very tender compassionate spirit appeared in this, and great

humanity, above what is commonly found in men, especially men of war,

towards little children, even their own; and this was another sign of a

broken contrite spirit. Those that are penitent will be pitiful.

3. He discovered, in this, a great concern for another world, which is

an evidence of repentance. Nathan had told him that certainly the child

should die; yet, while it is in the reach of prayer, he earnestly

intercedes with God for it, chiefly (as we may suppose) that its soul

might be safe and happy in another world, and that his sin might not

come against the child, and that it might not fare the worse for that

in the future state.

4. He discovered, in this, a holy dread of God and of his displeasure.

He deprecated the death of the child chiefly as it was a token of God’s

anger against him and his house, and was inflicted in performance of a

threatening; therefore he prayed thus earnestly that, if it were the

will of God, the child might live, because that would be to him a token

of God’s being reconciled to him. Lord, chasten me not in thy hot

displeasure.
Ps. vi. 1.

     

III. The death of the child: It died on the seventh day

(v. 18),

when it was seven days old, and therefore not circumcised, which David

might perhaps interpret as a further token of God’s displeasure, that

it died before it was brought under the seal of the covenant; yet he

does not therefore doubt of its being happy for the benefits of the

covenant do not depend upon the seals. David’s servants, judging of him

by themselves, were afraid to tell him that the child was dead,

concluding that then he would disquiet himself most of all; so that he

knew not till he asked,

v. 19.

     

IV. David’s wonderful calmness and composure of mind when he understood

the child was dead. Observe,

     

1. What he did.

(1.) He laid aside the expressions of his sorrow, washed and anointed

himself, and called for clean linen, that he might decently appear

before God in his house.

(2.) He went up to the tabernacle and worshipped, like Job when

he heard of the death of his children. He went to acknowledge the hand

of God in the affliction, and to humble himself under it, and to submit

to his holy will in it, to thank God that he himself was spared and his

sin pardoned, and to pray that God would not proceed in his controversy

with him, nor stir up all his wrath. Is any afflicted? Let him

pray. Weeping must never hinder worshipping.

(3.) Then he went to his own house and refreshed himself, as one

who found benefit by his religion in the day of his affliction; for,

having worshipped, he did eat, and his countenance was no more

sad.

     

2. The reason he gave for what he did. His servants thought it strange

that he should afflict himself so for the sickness of the child and yet

take the death of it so easily, and asked him the reason of it

(v. 21),

in answer to which he gives this plain account of his conduct,

(1.) That while the child was alive he thought it his duty to importune

the divine favour towards it,

v. 22.

Nathan had indeed said the child should die, but, for aught that he

knew, the threatening might be conditional, as that concerning

Hezekiah: upon his great humiliation and earnest prayer, he that had so

often heard the voice of his weeping might be pleased to reverse

the sentence, and spare the child: Who can tell whether God will yet

be gracious to me? God gives us leave to be earnest with him in

prayer for particular blessings, from a confidence in his power and

general mercy, though we have no particular promise to build upon: we

cannot be sure, yet let us pray, for who can tell but God will be

gracious to us, in this or that particular? When our relations and

friends have fallen sick, the prayer of faith has prevailed much; while

there is life there is hope, and, while there is hope, there is room

for prayer.

(2.) That now the child was dead he thought it as much his duty to be

satisfied in the divine disposal concerning it

(v. 23):

Now, wherefore should I fast? Two things checked his

grief:–

[1.] I cannot bring him back again; and again, He shall not

return to me. Those that are dead are out of the reach of prayer;

nor can our tears profit them. We can neither weep nor pray them back

to this life. Wherefore then should we fast? To what purpose is this

waste? Yet David fasted and wept for Jonathan when he was dead, in

honour to him.

[2.] I shall go to him. First, To him to the grave. Note, The

consideration of our own death should moderate our sorrow at the death

of our relations. It is the common lot; instead of mourning for their

death, we should think of our own: and, whatever loss we have of them

now, we shall die shortly, and go to them. Secondly, To him to

heaven, to a state of blessedness, which even the Old Testament saints

had some expectation of. Godly parents have great reason to hope

concerning their children that die in infancy that it is well with

their souls in the other world; for the promise is to us and to our

seed, which shall be performed to those that do not put a bar in

their own door, as infants do not. Favores sunt ampliandi–Favours

received should produce the hope of more. God calls those his

children that are born unto him; and, if they be his, he will save

them. This may comfort us when our children are removed from us by

death, they are better provided for, both in work and wealth, than they

could have been in this world. We shall be with them shortly, to part

no more.

     

V. The birth of Solomon. Though David’s marrying Bath-sheba had

displeased the Lord, yet he was not therefore commanded to divorce her;

so far from this that God gave him that son by her on whom the covenant

of royalty should be entailed. Bath-sheba, no doubt, was greatly

afflicted with the sense of her sin and the tokens of God’s

displeasure. But, God having restored to David the joys of his

salvation, he comforted her with the same comforts with which he

himself was comforted of God

(v. 24):

He comforted Bath-sheba. And both he and she had reason to be

comforted in the tokens of God’s reconciliation to them,

1. Inasmuch as, by his providence, he gave them a son, not as the

former, who was given in anger and taken away in wrath, but a child

graciously given, and written among the living in Jerusalem. They

called him Solomon–peaceful, because his birth was a token of

God’s being at peace with them, because of the prosperity which was

entailed upon him, and because he was to be a type of Christ, the

prince of peace. God had removed one son from them, but now gave them

another instead of him, like Seth instead of Abel,
Gen. iv. 25.

Thus God often balances the griefs of his people with comforts in the

same thing wherein he hath afflicted them, setting the one over-against

the other. David had very patiently submitted to the will of God in

the death of the other child, and now God made up the loss of that,

abundantly to his advantage, in the birth of this. The way to have our

creature-comforts either continued or restored, or the loss of them

made up some other way, is cheerfully to resign them to God.

2. Inasmuch as, by his grace, he particularly owned and favoured that

son: The Lord loved him

(v. 24 and 25),

ordered him, by the prophet Nathan, to be called Jedidiah–Beloved

of the Lord: though a seed of evil-doers (for such David and

Bath-sheba were), yet so well ordered was the covenant, and the crown

entailed by it, that it took away all attainders and corruption of

blood, signifying that those who were by nature children of wrath and

disobedience should, by the covenant of grace, not only be reconciled,

but made favourites. And, in this name, he typified Jesus Christ, that

blessed Jedidiah, the son of God’s love, concerning whom God declared

again and again, This is my beloved Son, in whom I am well

pleased.







The Conquest of Rabbah. B. C. 1036.

     

26 And Joab fought against Rabbah of the children of Ammon, and

took the royal city.

  27 And Joab sent messengers to David, and said, I have fought

against Rabbah, and have taken the city of waters.

  28 Now therefore gather the rest of the people together, and

encamp against the city, and take it: lest I take the city, and

it be called after my name.

  29 And David gathered all the people together, and went to

Rabbah, and fought against it, and took it.

  30 And he took their king’s crown from off his head, the weight

whereof was a talent of gold with the precious stones: and it

was set on David’s head. And he brought forth the spoil of the

city in great abundance.

  31 And he brought forth the people that were therein, and put

them under saws, and under harrows of iron, and under axes of

iron, and made them pass through the brickkiln: and thus did he

unto all the cities of the children of Ammon. So David and all

the people returned unto Jerusalem.

     

We have here an account of the conquest of Rabbah, and other cities of

the Ammonites. Though this comes in here after the birth of David’s

child, yet it is most probable that it was effected a good while

before, and soon after the death of Uriah, perhaps during the days of

Bath-sheba’s mourning for him. Observe,

1. That God was very gracious in giving David this great success

against his enemies, notwithstanding the sin he had been guilty of just

at that time when he was engaged in this war, and the wicked use he had

made of the sword of the children of Ammon in the murder of Uriah.

Justly might he have made that sword, thenceforward, a plague to David

and his kingdom; yet he breaks it, and makes David’s sword victorious,

even before he repents, that this goodness of God might lead him to

repentance. Good reason had David to own that God dealt not with

him according to his sins,
Ps. ciii. 10.

2. That Joab acted very honestly and honourably; for when he had taken

the city of waters, the royal city, where the palace was, and

from which the rest of the city was supplied with water (and therefore,

upon the cutting off of that, would be obliged speedily to surrender),

he sent to David to come in person to complete this great action, that

he might have the praise of it,

v. 26-28.

Herein he showed himself a faithful servant, that sought his master’s

honour, and his own only in subordination to his, and left an example

to the servants of the Lord Jesus, in every thing they do, to consult

his honour. Not unto us, but to thy name, give glory.

3. That David was both too haughty and too severe upon this occasion,

and neither so humble nor so tender as he should have been.

(1.) He seems to have been too fond of the crown of the king of Ammon,

v. 30.

Because it was of extraordinary value, by reason of the precious stones

with which it was set, David would have it set upon his head, though it

would have been better to have cast it at God’s feet, and at this time

to have put his own mouth in the dust, under guilt. The heart that is

truly humbled for sin is dead to worldly glory and looks upon it with a

holy contempt.

(2.) He seems to have been too harsh with his prisoners of war,

v. 31.

Taking the city by storm, after it had obstinately held out against a

long and expensive siege, if he had put all whom he found in arms to

the sword in the heat of battle, it would have been severe enough; but

to kill them afterwards in cold blood, and by cruel tortures, with saws

and harrows, tearing them to pieces, did not become him who, when he

entered upon the government, promised to sing of mercy as well as

judgment,

Ps. ci. 1.

Had he made examples of those only who had abused his ambassadors, or

advised or assisted in it, that being a violation of the law of

nations, it might have been looked upon as a piece of necessary justice

for terror to other nations; but to be thus severe with all the cities

of the children of Ammon (that is, the garrisons or soldiers of the

cities) was extremely rigorous, and a sign that David’s heart was not

yet made soft by repentance, else the bowels of his compassion would

not have been thus shut up–a sign that he had not yet found mercy,

else he would have been more ready to show mercy.


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